The key to happiness on a low key is to have multiple men in your life at once, all oblivious to each others existence. Then, if and when it’s time, you can chose the one from the ones left. Being all romantic with one person is having your hopes up blindly and its pure shit. I know that it feels so good to have hope again after losing it zillions of times in the past. And of course talking to one guy is what FEELS right when you don’t need any other. But one should never forget that feelings are often misleading.